Thursday, 31 May 2007

what the future holds ... is unknown?

the set back in this never ending drama can be very tragic to the children involved - lorin and venice. ruffa has deprived her children their father.

so what holds true for the future of the little girls? they got entangled in a very ugly word-war between their parents - the parents who are supposed to take care of them and shield them from harm of any kind.

yes, this is ugly - and it will certainly get uglier when things "buried deep into the grave" resurface once again and haunt the guilty ones. there will be more revelations that will shock and anger the general public - insults to a higher level will dawn on a lot of people ... what the future holds, truly, is unknown ... the drama will continue - it will even more be bloodier, more personal, more revealing and more outraging.

my heart goest to the little angels, or princesses as ruffa would claim them to be - they are in for the ride of a no-win-game ...

the painful truth hurts ...

sitting on quite a number of inside information about the ruffa-yilmaz brouhaha is not that easy .... i have promised to hold on to them until due time, so as not to preempt the "hard research" some people are undertaking ... geez, i'm holding my breath far too long now.

will you please get that published already?

go Dolly Anne, go!

she asked for it, now she's got it!

http://showbizandstyle.inquirer.net/entertainment/entertainment/view_article.php?article_id=68775

for ruffa to think she's above everyone else, think again! dolly anne said it all, shall we rest our case? hmmm ... not yet! that's only a little part of ruffa's mess ... we'll keep digging and get ourselves more substantial evidence against her blatant lies! let's arm the very few people in the showbiz industry with the bullet of truth ... until truth be told and public apology be issued for what it is worth!

Wednesday, 30 May 2007

poor journalism?

ruffa got peeved at dolly anne carvajal's article about her and yilmaz ... why?

people in the know got VERY peeved at ruffa for calling dolly anne's article as poor journalism. such retaliation is truly uncalled for ... what does ruffa really know what journalism is all about? if she thinks she is truly slighted by the article, she could easily defend herself or yilmaz by telling the public that what was written in the article was not true at all. why couldn't she do just that? could it be that there's some shade of truth in it? for goodness sake, dolly anne is one of the most reliable entertainment writer there is in philippine showbiz - someone who wouldn't just write about anything unless she knew more about the subject. those who normally react to her articles are those who are narrowminded. one has to really read her articles and understand each and every word she writes, how she wrote it and the manner in which she presented and published the article. it is unfair for some people to draw and make their own interpretations of the article and not take it as it is - that's just simply wrong!

so, ruffa, if you are to say they are not true, then just say so - pointblank! and make sure you can justify and support your answer. and another "unsolicited advice" - you ought to learn how to fight your own battles - know when to speak up and know when to shut up. it's just as simple as that!

poor journalism? my eye!

i heard from the grapevine ...

that there's something very "explosive" to hit the newstands in the philippines very soon. i'm just as curious as everyone else. the big question is, who will benefit from whatever it would be - could it be ruffa? yilmaz? or the filipino public? let's just wait and see ...

Monday, 28 May 2007

Hello! Magazine Cover: genuine or fraud?


this is a hot tip ... and a very much disputed Hello! Magazine cover - genuine or fraud? you decide ...

Turkey version, 2005/12
No 41, 23-29 March

this is posted in ruffa gutierrez' official website. (go to cover girl section then scroll down)

what do you think? do you see any flaw? one thing noticeable and suspicious is the layout - it doesn't seem to follow the norms of a regular Hello! Magazine layout - no explanation of what other articles were inside the mag, no mention of the other pictures' relevance on cover ... is the magazine's content centered on Ruffa alone? suspicious ... very suspicious!

synopsis of a fairytale circus

I did mention earlier that I have this very strong suspicion that there is something off about this Ruffa-Yilmaz affair.

As the drama continues, it gets even more bizarre. People are left in awe and amusement as we get ourselves “invited” into the lives of the Gutierrez-Bektas family as they give statements at one interview and the other. They say it is not our business and that they do not need “unsolicited advice” – well then, as many others have said, they might as well shut up and stop giving interviews and make a circus of their so called private and precious lives. The public speculation was sparked by the interviews they have been giving left and right. They enjoy the limelight, the attention they get from the media and the Filipino public – it would be a lie and hypocrisy in the highest level if they would claim otherwise. They are playing with the public’s sympathy and emotions by issuing conflicting and confusing statements – overlooking the fact that there are intelligent people at bay watching (and laughing) in silence, analyzing and investigating the truth beyond each and every claim they get the local print and TV media to print and publish on their behalf. Those who once had taken their side suddenly took notice … got confused themselves and started questioning the real score behind all this drama.

The weaving of the "happy-ever-after-fairytale"
Ruffa has claimed in public a lot of things which are far from the truth. If you are to go over the past interviews, she has projected a very happy married life. Everything is rosy and perfect. She told of the fabulous life she lived in Istanbul, her integration into a totally different lifestyle, her new family and new religion (only to revert back to christianity later on). To brag about the wealth and stature of her husband is one thing, to flaunt her material possessions is another thing. To exaggerate the truth about her involvement in the FTV Turkey-business only showed how she craved for public attention and recognition in the Philippines – she was convinced that everyone just got to know! Lo and behold, no one questioned the authenticity of the so-called ownership of the TV station – a realization came to her, an apparition – aha, I can say anything I want without any problem at all … I can stage a comeback and revive my “career” in the Philippines. You see, after the so many publicities she got after her marriage, her PR machinery concluded that they have to inject fluidity to feed the curiosity of many in the Philippines about her new lifestyle. Even to the extent of faking her resumé as a sought after celebrity in the Hello! Magazine (Turkey version) – what a fluke! Yes, we indeed got ourselves fed with all the “fairytale ingredients” in everything we read about her.

How does one keep the interest alive in a person? You make them admire you. And so came the different “humanitarian” projects – and she has to name drop her admiration for Angelina Jolie in all this, saying how much she admired Angelina’s humanitarian works. Why the reference? She doesn’t have any originality at all that she has to copy such act to get her in the loop and be proclaimed as “humanitarian” – the nerve! While Angelina’s causes are genuine, I can’t say the same for Ruffa – for me, it’s too shady, too hollow.

The acclaimed marital bliss later turned into a farce. An announcement was made that Ruffa and Yilmaz are to file for a divorce. In Ruffa’s official statement, which she claimed as a joint statement from her and Yilmaz, she cited their cultural differences as the cause of their separation and later indirectly claimed on national TV that she’s a battered wife. She said she realized only now, after 7 years together and in marriage, that such was a heavy burden to bear. But when Yilmaz issued his own statement, it turned out to be a rather different story. Tongues started wagging – people made their own interpretations, a lot of finger-pointing ensued, bashing here and there and it didn’t stop there … more drama …

True or false
Ruffa has embarrassed herself in public … she was caught in a lie. But instead of submitting herself to silence, she weaved more lies and deception to save face. More interviews surfaced … along with it came more secrets out in the open. Yes, Ruffa did finally get the attention of the Filipino public, but beyond the way she had hoped it to be. People made it their business to seek truth in all the claims she made in public.

- A happy married life (busted, fake, make-believe)

- A wealthy and of good standing of a husband (busted – she forgot to mention where the wealth is from and his family background)

- FTV Turkey Ownership (busted – they had “rights to manage” never owned it)

- Marriage to a Richard Daloia (many claimed this is true and there are records showing it)

All these were neither confirmed nor denied by Ruffa herself. Very few press would even touch on the subject? Why? These were already known in blog threads for as early as 2003 and intensified during 2004. These points were deemed outright as "sensitive" and "questionable" - the philippines press left it that way. There was no interest whatsoever to investigate the authencity of these claims. Your guess is probably as good as mine.

An aftermath
I don’t know if Ruffa and Yilmaz discussed the latter’s first statement to the press, but there are signs that they did. Bear with me on this one, why would Yilmaz retract some of his claims in the first statement? Why was Annabelle suddenly soft after the release of the second statement? Why the matter-of-factly attitude from the Ruffa camp? Suddenly, Ruffa is open for a possible reconciliation with her estranged husband? Is it really for the sake of their children?

Suddenly, Ruffa packed and left Manila with her children in tow, and of course, Annabelle is very much like a shadow behind. Destination: Los Angeles, USA. Why? Could it be that the unexpected interest of the general public to a certain Richard Daloia is one of the main reasons to this change of plan? Remember Ruffa claimed that she was to leave for Thailand and even hinted that Yilmaz will likely show up there? Then they began yet another circus – Yilmaz is suddenly here, there and everywhere! Again, your guess is probably as good as mine.

The drama of the latest development with Annabelle saying to Yilmaz to “leave Ruffa alone”, to “give her freedom” is just too much for a spectator as myself. In my opinion, Yilmaz do not have to leave Ruffa alone since Ruffa have already left a long time ago – without his permission as he has claimed in one of his statements. If Yilmaz is trying to get hold of Ruffa, it’s probably because he simply wants to put an end to this entire circus. And I guess the Gutierrez family is trying to give him a hard time, as to why, I can’t really tell – but suspicions, boy I got plenty!

A reflection
Having read everything there is to read about Ruffa, I find it very amusing that regardless of being caught red-handed in public, there is not an ounce of remorse or shame in her at all – and that’s too sad, to the point of having that queasy awful feeling that this saga full of lies and deceit is nothing new to her. Had she lived a life full of lies all this time? Had this been on from childhood, unto her teen and adult life? Was she brought up in a make-believe world all of her own, and that of her family? Is there any truth in her life at all, or had every little thing been about her, or her family had been a lie? One thing I can guarantee though – it’s so obvious that there’s a strong love, faith and devotion within their family … that is love, faith and devotion among themselves and nobody else.

Friday, 25 May 2007

the never-ending saga continues ...

into oblivion we go ... deeper and deeper into the abyss. will somebody, someone cast a ray of light already? or are we doomed to wait in vain? oh, yes ... we are simply spectators of a damn good show ... the fairytale drama of a "princess" (sic) and a "prince" ... ho-humm!

pray tell me, why does ruffa always have this referal as a "princess" in most of the articles written about her? winning a beauty pageant do not make one a princess - get real! as far as i know, she do not have any royal blood except for spanish ancestry from his dad (which got mixed with the visayan blood from her mom). what is it so "princess-like" in her? the princesses i know (at a distance) are low key individuals, they shy away from the press or paparazzis, they hardly give interviews and they mind their own business - she's opposite to all these characteristics as accustomed to a true blue royalty ... cease the illusion, please.

treat ruffa as she is ... a showbiz personality - nothing more, nothing less. putting her in a pedestal place using the word "princess" is an insult to the true meaning of the word.

Tuesday, 22 May 2007

the FTV Turkey business ...

now, the cat is out of the bag ... so the saying says.

dolly anne carvajal of the inquirer newspaper heeded the call of confirming what most of us already know - the ownership of FTV Turkey (a fashion TV station) ... read her article on this issue in the link below.

http://showbizandstyle.inquirer.net/entertainment/entertainment/view_article.php?article_id=67211

hurray! another lie of ruffa busted publicly - what a humiliation! that is if she's capable of having such a feeling at all ...

anyway, thus it was confirmed by FTV's very own jean-pierre partouche that

- yilmaz did not own FTV Turkey
- yilmaz did not buy FTV Turkey

but,

- yilmaz had rights to FTV Turkey for one year (2005 - 2006) ... this meaning "contractual administration" - in short, employee working on behalf of FTV

so, for this purpose, yilmaz put up a company where he made ruffa its CEO to take care of business (?) - as to what her tasks really are is yet another thing since she undoubtedly have no knowledge as to how to take care of administration nor oversee the need of the TV station - and remember, she's mostly in the philippines during that period.

could it be that ruffa prefers to be the one featured on Fashion TV Turkey than doing the paperwork "behind the scenes"?

if i had it all wrong, please explain all the above in your own words.

i will follow you?

in the link below, super natawa ako sa mga quoted statements from ruffa ... she's got the "i-love-my-own"-attitude to the max ...

http://www.gmanews.tv/story/43338/Ruffa-Marital-blues-not-about-lack-of-love-but-of-respect

ruffa spoke in volumes of yilmaz before - during their happier days (sic) and now she claims otherwise, and that's according to herown statement that yilmaz "did not take care of her" .... *yawn* - this we alreadty established as one of her big lies. if you really are to read each interviews from both ruffa and annabelle, i'd say it again - pure and simple, all this is DAMAGE CONTROL. in most of the interviews now they are covering their tracks so that either way the whole circus would go, ruffa and company would benefit from it. i hope yilmaz got something up his sleeve - which i'm sure he does ... just wait and see.

when ruffa announced she's to "go away for a while to soul search" - mark my words, it was not her idea but yilmaz'. for her to even announce where she's going is very suspicious - even more suspicious for her to tell that maybe yilmaz will make a move to meet there ... do you smell what i smell? this is stinky stuff! nilalaro na naman ni ruffa ang publiko, there's no denying this fact. ang pobreng mga pinoy, naloko na naman. bottomline: gusto ni ruffa susunod ang press sa thailand (sic). i think she LOVED the idea she's been in the turkish newspaper as the WIFE OF YILMAZ BEKTAS WHO CHOSE HER CAREER OVER HER FAMILY - well, it's publicity for her no matter what. kaso, this is one publicity which is bad for yilmaz in istanbul that he now needs to save his face and tarnished HONOR in the muslim turkish society - there will be consequences for this. ask any muslim ...

Monday, 21 May 2007

cirque d' ruffa gutierrez

the plot thickens ...

it's an endless tale of woes imaginaire ... one wouldn't know what's really cooking inside the manipulative gutierrez' minds. i'd just sit back and relax and wait for something out of the extraordinary ... something explosive, something that i do not know already. what i truly wonder now is what is hidden in ruffa's mysterious smile ... do you know? i bet she's laughing inside about how she has fooled the publice once more ... what more can i say, it's just very "cirque d' ruffa gutierrez" - everyone is in awe (not!).

one more time - it stinks!

geez, here's another bead of lies ... and as mariaclara in another forum said, "straight from the horse's mouth" ...

http://www.pep.ph/news/13319/Ruffa-to-Yilmaz:-You-have-to-promise-me-that-you-will-change...

she's getting more and more pathetic ... it stinks, it stinks, it stinks"

one stinky business ...

magso-soul searching daw? baka naman strategy plotting ... she doesn't even want to confirm nor deny her 1st marriage ... this is getting more and more interesting. she really planned her "comeback" well, but at the expense of other people - especially her children (they became pawns in this drama) - probably her reason would be that they are still too young to understand, and indeed they are ... poor children to have a "mythomanic-like" of a mom as ruffa ...

http://www.pep.ph/news/13313/Ruffa-Gutierrez-leaves-the-country-today-with-her-daughters

also, in the interview below, is annabelle rama getting soft? so very suddenly? this really is getting quite an awful STINKY business ... don't you think?

http://www.pep.ph/news/13318/Annabelle-Rama-is-now-ready-to-talk-to-Yilmaz-Bektas

again, i'd say, drama, drama, drama and more drama ...

Sunday, 20 May 2007

been to hell and back?

that's what ruffa claimed earlier in one of her blogs when confronted by strong criticisms ... she somehow emphasized this phrase by converting back to christianity after denouncing her christian faith in favour of islam when she wed her turkish husband.

http://showbizandstyle.inquirer.net/entertainment/entertainment/view_article.php?article_id=66905

yeah, right ... she's been to hell and back ... to what? just asking ....

annabelle rama - bow ... wow! wow!

i watched annabelle rama's interview in showbiz central for the first time ... my comment about it? i find it touchy, with the right showbiz ingredients, but still, it's hilarious in many ways - see for yourself. especially her comments about ruffa being away from her ... isn't it the norm that when you get married, your "family" is where your husband is?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3iTPTyGrl4

annabelle spoke well too soon about her opinion on ruffa and yilmaz' marriage without really going to the bottom of it all. or was it the very opportunity annabelle's waiting all this time? as i've said, i find all this too shallow ... you don't mind my saying do you?

nora - a lesbian?

could it be true? but records don't lie ... unless manipulated. good thing those records were in the USA - i wouldn't believe it if they're from manila ... everything else from there can be falsified.

will she deny or confirm this? we'll just have to wait and see. question is, would it be such big deal?

ogie + regine = SAY WHAT?

oh yes, it's finally out ... but hey, it's not that shocking anymore. their very own public have suspected the relationship has been going on for far too long already - fact is they always manage to avoid admitting it as it really is.

for goodness sake, stop playing that pipe of denials - just admit it pointblank. in the end, you lose not only your credibility, much less the respect your public have for you. get real!

one step back ...

it is so interesting to note that after yilmaz' first statement, people in the know instantly identified annabelle rama as the "materialistic relative" in his open letter ... and in the same breath, annabelle and ruffa also assumed the same - why? because they are guilty as hell and knew it in their heart that they have that streak of "materialism" yilmaz had pointed out. so, their answer? the "may-i-go-to-the-press"-strategy to air their side. hilarious isn't it? now that yilmaz cleared the intentions of his statement - things certainly is taking another turnabout.

http://www.gmanews.tv/story/43162/PEP-Yilmaz-I-want-to-save-marriage-with-Ruffa

what really happened? yilmaz, during last week's conversations with ruffa, obviously gave her an ultimatum to choose between marriage or divorce. instead of thinking things through, ruffa went to press bout their marital problems by spilling her "heart's pain and confusion" to ricky lo - thus the circus and "soap opera"-development of the whole thing. annabelle jumped into the bandwagon and showed her true colours (as if we do not know her) and informed us, the public, what she really think of the union between her unica hija and the turkish millionaire (daw!). mother spilled out her worries and worse nightmares about what would happen to ruffa and her grandchildren if they go back to istanbul. why is she preempting the possible reconciliation between the two? both ruffa and annabelle claim there is a valid reason. well, since they love to spread their dirty linen to the public time and again, why can they not divulge this reason as well? is it because it is only an imagination in their minds? a ghostly apparition not supported by facts?

today, there will yet be another interview from annabelle in showbiz central. i am beginning to think all this hullabaloo is all a product of gimmickry - just for the show. the latest hype about ruffa's re-christening with invited TV and press people is a suave move from ruffa to get herself away from the muslim's sharia law in case yilmaz contest custody of her children. but she forgot something - she has dedicated herself in a muslim rite with yilmaz in istanbul, which still makes her WIFE of yilmaz ... and for her own sake, i just hope she didn't have a turkish citizenship, or dual citizenship for that matter.

one big puzzle really is the distance the whole gutierrez family have put between them and yilmaz. according to him, NOBODY in her family have talked or contacted him since this whole thing exploded in the newspapers. if true that it's only ruffa who speaks to him many times over the phone, who is there to know what the real score is. remember, rufa is a big liar - she could have said things opposite of what was really discussed between her and yilmaz. read between the lines in the above 2nd statement from yilmaz. now, everything looks very shady as a whole - drama, drama, drama.

there is already some betting going around - ruffa will definitely go back to istanbul. as to how is another question. yilmaz seemed determined for this to happen - so, let's wait and see.

what a relief ...

finally the filipino people learned their lessons that no celebrity deserve a seat in the government, except for a handful of them who TRULY deserves one ... kudos for using your vote wisely!

why should he?

meaning lino cayetano, needs sharon cuneta's permission to attend KC's graduation in paris? is sharon in control of the attendees of the graduation rites? hmmp! i didn't know the graduation was exclusive for KC alone ... feeling important, huh?

Saturday, 19 May 2007

interesting links about ruffa gutierrez

find out more juicy stuff about this gal called ruffa sharmaine gutierrez-bektas ...

http://cheesedip.com/2003/03/30/ruffas_wedding.php

http://www.pep.ph/news/13158/Ruffa-Gutierrez-and-Yilmaz-Bektas-end-their-four-year-marriage

http://www.pep.ph/news/13159/Ruffa-Gutierrez:-There.

http://www.pep.ph/news/13216/Yilmaz-blames-Ruffa

http://www.pep.ph/articles/12510/Ruffa-tells-YES!-about-happier-times-with-Yilmaz

http://www.pep.ph/news/13191/Ruffa-and-Yilmaz:-The-End-of-a-Fairytale?

http://www.pep.ph/articles/12533/Ruffa-and-Yilmaz:-The-End-of-a-Fairytale?-(Part-2)

ruffa gutierrez - all that there is to it ...

is nothing but lies, lies, lies and more lies. i pity those who believe and hang on every word she weaves in public - what a waste! very few people know what's behind the facade. but who's to challenge all her lies? none i guess ... the pinoy showbiz circle loves her and her wild imaginations.

when will the filipino people realise that ruffa is only toying them in her little finger - she thinks so highly of herself that nothing matters except her material possessions - and her future investments ... that will be her two little girls. soon they will end up in the oblivion of endorsements for big bucks - i call that exploitation! well, like her mother before her, the easy way out to earn the big bucks is through the shallow world of make believe - the pinoy showbiz style.

like mother, like daughter?

welcome one and all!

due to insistent public demand, i have now decided to open in public my blog specifically for celebrity bashing - or adulation page for some. this is going to be very interesting.

do not fret, you need not be a member of blogspot - you may post your comments anonymously if you so wish to do - or do under an alias name. whatever you fancy!

let's keep the ball rolling! have fun!