Wednesday, 4 July 2007

the "high and mighty" ruffa i know ...

... is actually a brat of a gal even in her teens. you see, moving around the right "circles", you'll be surprised about the amount of stories you'd get to hear. when i heard this particular story, it made me think that ruffa, even at a young age, had already exhibited this "disorder" of being a brat and always trying to get everything she wants, no matter what the consequence would be. is the story true? well, i'd like to ask eddie gutierrez when i see him ... i hope i get to do so in my lifetime.

apparently, upon the return of the gutierrez family to the philippines (after their famous kaldero-selling days in the USA), they got invited to several different social events in the entertainment industry. at one time, one very prominent figure showed eddie and ruffa (dunno if annabelle was there) his prized possessions in terms of art collection and jewelry. ruffa allegedly asked if she could try a tiara of precious stones and was allowed to wear it for the night - and mind you, she wouldn't want to part with it, and even tried if she can cry to have it. the tiara was said to cost a lot of money, and the poor host begged to have it back. even her father eddie begged her to give it back and couldn't convince her then. the prominent figure, who was then their host for the evening, threatened to call the cops if eddie can't make her ruffa return the precious tiara. it was only then it was returned. you can just imagine the bucket of tears (?) ruffa must have shed when she didn't get that tiara.

now, it makes you think, could this event in her teenage life somehow distorted her "innocence" that she has vowed to be "successful" to possess such material things money could buy? already then, she probably wanted to be treated like a "princess" ... and look what and where she is now.

28 comments:

Anonymous said...

HMM.. first off-- jewelry is plural/singular-- no such word as jewelries.. I keep coming across this..the chinese have a penchant for laughters ,stuffs... it just drives me round the bend-- no s's..

no wonder--Loofah is fond having her daughters wear these mocked up tiaras....lol.


Ruffa has this 'sense of entitlement' & too self-absorbed -- it also tells me one thing-- she was so deprived in her childhood... hence this neediness & graspiness in old age for any attention , for anything.

is it any surprising having a mother like Rama???

this is a person that was never given structure, decipline, & too much importance given to her looks & nothing else.That's too bad-- she could have really exploited & used her 'looks' for grander things & not belittle herself with all these low life antics--if she had more between her ears. she's such a flawed character.


This is what I realized & have seen even in my teens--when we first arrived in Hollywood--as almost immediately, I began to hobnobbed & met a lot of my childhood idols-- & some famous women-- ONE CAN MAKE AN ENTRANCE WITH A 'FACE' but after it-- you have to deliver-- if nothing-- that face only becomes part of t he woodwork.. nothing, as people get on with t he party.

it's really surprising-- no one offered her a huge ,fat contract to model in New York or come to hollywood after her princess win... those talent scouts must have seen something not all there-- as they are very perceptive.

I know-- I dealt with them.

just too bad.

ce-ce said...

i stand corrected .. thanks.

Anonymous said...

I've been so out of touch to Anything going on in Manila since we left it-- outside ousting Marcos. Out of curiosity, finding these sites, been checking out the local talent.. yeah, Filipinos/as can be very good looking-- but the problem is-- the moment they open their mouths-- the dribble that comes out of it..so sad.

Is it any wonder-- Phil is now so behind it's neighbouring countries? whose cinema & talent are getting world-wide recognition?! & being taken seriously!!!

And to think-- Filipinos supposedly speak English? more like taglish.They'd prefer to give a dialogue coach to any Asian talent.

this is a very sad state of affAirs-- the only one worthwhile I have seen was Lea Salonga-- I was living in London at that t ime. She has common sense--& SHE PAID ATTENTION & LEARNT FROM THE BRITS. OTHERWISE, THEY WOULD HAVE DISMISSED HER,NO MATTER HOW TALENTED SHE WAS/IS.THE BRITS HAVE NO PATIENCE-- AS THEY LAMBAST THEIR OWN.

Anonymous said...

i have a friend who shared with me that there is what they call Vampire personality. Out of curiosity, i searched in google to know what it is. i was surprised that there is even more what they termed as Narcissistic Vampire Personality.

please check this link and try to find out if d 2nd world princess is being described....

http://psy.rin.ru/eng/article/142-101.html

Anonymous said...

tHE FUNNIEST & even more pathetic is-- her only real claim to fame is this second princess nonesense


geez.... it was way back when.. what? 1994? in the beauty contest biz-- that's eons ago! And she didn't even bring home the 'gold'...

Beauty contests are a dime a dozen-- no one even pays attention to it now in US--which mostly only comes on cable.

so loofah ruffa having this tagges to her name doesn't mean much-- just makes her even more pathetic with her pretentions.
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Anonymous said...

whose this Precious Lara??? & she got the title??? shows you, I only found out checking these sites.... from pic I saw-- she's gorgeous! & her look have more stature than Loofah-- she even looks like (from pic) like that Italian actress Monica( I think) Balducci.

loofah dresses & makes herself up like a drag queen-- & those drag queens I've seen have more finesse...lol...

Anonymous said...

yeah ,checked this vampire etc personality-- pretty spot on.not good,is it???

Anonymous said...

this is where I am noW-- I DO BELIEVE IT IS TOTALLY IN ORDER FOR LOOFAH RUFFA & RAMA-- to MAKE A TOTAL CONTRITE PUBLIC APOLOGY TO DOLLY ANN CARVAJAL-- after that wretched public harraguing Rama did to Dolly Ann-- I have never heard such vulgar Tagalog in my life.Tagalog-- as is- is not EXACTLY the best sounding language/dialect around-- & they just proceeded to make it sound even more nasty & vulgar-- AND CONSIDERING-- DOLLY ANN VALIDATED HERSELF-- & RUFFA FORCED TO ADMIT TO THIS FIRST MARRIAGE WHICH THEY SIMPLY WANTED TO SWEEP UNDER THE CARPET..



THEY SHOULD APOLOGISE TO DOLLY ANN-- THE PUBLIC SHOULD CLAMOUR FOR IT!

IT'S ABOUT TIME-- THIS MA(BARKER)-DAUGHTER ACT BE TOTALLY PUT IN THEIR PLACE/S!!

Anonymous said...

Ano kaya gagawin ni Ruffa ngayon at patanda na siya. I mean, she needs to change. May konsensiya kaya siya?

Anonymous said...

ha...ha. .. first off, Loofah needs a good reality check...she loves 'playing the victim' when she's caught in her own muck.

what is there to such people? SHE'S GOT A LOT OF PROBLEMS!!!! her ego is tremendous-- yet knee deep in insecurity, this is why, she has to keep 'proving' she's all that.And the only onesan impress are the very ones her mother quaintly calls the 'patay gutoms'--the class they despised.

The Phil media/press really have NO integrity! they should be writing about this bigamy by now-- & be totally outraged & appalled the way they treated Dolly Ann!

Where is it????

If This happened in US or Uk?? the public & media will have an uproar_( think Paris Hilton being thrown back in jail & Hilton's offense baby stuff compared to this)) , jumped on them & put them right.

Ruffa keeps yapping she's getting Hollywood offers? fat chance on that-- NOT with her DIRT! even IF she has the talent-- but she doesn't.

If the public keep allowing her to get away with her rubbish? she will never feel she needs to change. Ah... how she gloats & raves being a BIG Fish in a very small pond which is Phil. i NOTICED--WHEN SHE WAS RECENTLY HERE IN US-- THERE'S THE BUZZ FOLLOWING HER LIKE DEMENTED FLIES i'M SURE-- IN VEGAS, LA ZOO, DISNEYLAND-- NO ONE GAVE LOOFAH A SECOND GLANCE FROM THE GENERAL PUBLIC HERE. FUNNY, THAT.. when usually Americans love to watch to see what's going on when they see a camera? a crowd will ensue-- but not with Ruffa-- & there she was with her huge sunglasses-- still no sale. shoot! that's sad.If a crowd appeared-- I know-- they would have shot it to show 'she's a big star in US"!

on another tangent-- found this Pinoy US site-- I roared when I read Martin Neivera? was going to launch a perfume in Bevery hills??? then in further scrutiny-- read FRED SEGAL ON MELROSE IN BEVERlY HILLS??? crikey! what rubbish! what is wrong with t his picture??? Fred Segal is on Melrose & crescent Heights-- in west Hollywood- which is several miles away from Bevery Hills--Melrose ends on doheny-- edge of BEv Hills-- far away from where Segal is at.I know-- I lived off doheny--my recent stomping ground.Besides, who'd buy any fragrance from Martin? with the croed that shops there-- they wouldn't know who he is.

The Flip press should stop writing this nonesense-- it doesn't look good for anyone.

Anonymous said...

sorry... crowd..

anyway, if any homegrown talent is/was making a crossover? & going mainstream in US?? I know i will hear about it. thus far, outside of Lea--I haven't heard of anyone. I do not include American borne & raised in this category-- totally different kettle of fish.

Ruffa keeps talking about her hollywood career-- never even heard of that company-- there's thousands of very small cable ones here. she mentions HBO in her website? she wished! shoot, I always had HBO-- never seen her on there.

The Flip talent that performs here mainly caters to the Flip community.

ce-ce said...

well, ruffa is a NOBODY - that is pretty much established by those in the know. the only one who thinks ruffa is a STAR is RUFFA herself. when there's no talk or hoot about her, trust ruffa and her cohorts to make up one - just so to be in the news, drumming up her so-called STAR-quality ek-ek ... yuck!

ce-ce said...

and yes, ruffa is good at making up stories such as her "hollywood" potential - when in truth she has none. did you know that she once dreamt of having a "planet hollywood" franchise business a few years back? what happened? as if you wouldn't have guessed - of course, it flopped - big time! dyusme, feeling businesswoman eh wala naman talagang alam how to manage any business ... or is it because they're only good in monkey business? i dunno ... what d'ya think?

Anonymous said...

CE CE..

YOU ARE FUNNY!

I do believe that Planet Hollywood franchise(wh became such a huge bore even for us here) went out of biz ages ago.Several HW celebs even lost money-- those lucky cashed their chips early before the fall.


I noticed-- she's very glib talking-- appearing to b e 'bright'-- but when in actual fact-- she talks nonesense! nothing she says make sense.

I've feeling-- she reads western mags then she makes what she likes( oh that sounds good) & mouths it off as her own.

Anonymous said...

I've been checking & getting a crash course on loofing--

those fantasies she weaved over her blissful Istanbul lifestyle-- charities??? well, she's such a photo whore--if this was remotely true? I BET-- THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN OODLES OF PICS OF THESE EVENTS,DON'T YOU???

Her Turkish high society life?? friends??? how come-- not one photo???


her mother in law--looks like a simple, trad muslim wife/mother-- she even wears a purdah. I saw a lot of them in London.. so I will believe -she's KURD..not even turkish-- as they don't wear those.Turks are very European esp their high society-- whose well traveled etc.

So enough of this royal pretentions, old money & all the rest of it.ALL BUNKED! RUBBISH!

SHE COULDN'T POSSIBLY SAY-- THEIR MONEY CAME FROM DRUGS,COULD SHE? OF COURSE, SHE KNEW FROM THE FIRST.HER FAMILY KNEW-- the key is-- they never wanted this to come out-- why they went ballistic with dolly Ann.

Anonymous said...

oh I am on a tangent: I giggled when I read how they first met & how she wondered " who are you'?? as he traveled with bodyguards. she wanted the Filipinos to believe-- he was so important-- when in actual fact-- I bet he was in Cannes to deal drugs-- for all those huge Elite Parties hence lame excuse he was there to buy a boat.

who buys a boat during the Cannes film Fest-- you won't even g et a kayak!

Anonymous said...

ruffa's bigamy case will never go to court. why? well, someone boasted that some of the philippines' justice department "judges" are annabelle rama's clients daw. also, there are clerks who leaked that bucks in "barya-barya" are passed under the table to "delay" the processing of the documents - oh, well ... this happens only in the philippines. for all you know, hindi lang delaying tactics ang practiced in this case - if ever malaking barya ang concerned, i'm sure those papers will be found in the waste bins, and be totally forgotten by the underpaid clerks and managers. hay buhay!

Anonymous said...

AH, THIS bigamy case is bigger than anyone can imagine.I doubt it will go away overnight as much a loofah & mother tries..

if this was just concerning phil-- yeah, I will agree as the goverment there is so corrupt-- but it concerns other countries.yeah, it occured to me Rama will blackmail those politicians she had serviced!

Turk is very quiet-- I bet he's got his lawyers working on all the angles--I took note when he mentioned the European court & investigating US for her first wedding.They lived in turkey as man & wife etc.. she signed those marriage contracts.

these sort of cases take time to unravel-- as these courts work very slowly.

ah! loofah is NOT out of the woods --yet!

far from it-- her nightmares have just begun-- why I thought her bravdo publicly exposing herself-- so ill-timed...SHE REALLY DOES NOT HAVE A CLUE WHAT DEEP SHIT SHE'S IN-- NEITHER DOES HER MOTHER!

this is no longer 'in house' like just concerning Phil-- where they got away with all their scandals-- US & turkey are involved in this now.the first wedding has to be sorted out before they even tackle this Bektas marriage.It will be a long drawn out process.

Anonymous said...

in a worse case scenario? Ruffa's name could end up under undesirable alien in most countries' books-- & bar from entering.
she's already in trouble with US Immigration..

or Jail in Istanbul!

we'll see- it's not over until the FAT lady sings-- & she hasn't even entered the stage yet.

Anonymous said...

i'd like to see that - ruffingfing getting the ax on being blacklisted on entering any country for her criminal offense. or better yet jailed, or STONED, in a muslim country. can you imagine this scenario: 1) her so-called byuti pang-pilipinas na lang mula luzon, visayaz at mindanao 2) yung pimping racket nilang mag-ina would come out in the open tapos 3) 'yung client nila can book her services online at the right price
if ever the scenario above happens, i'll rejoice and bungy-jump sa san juanico bridge - totoo!

Anonymous said...

ah, this also occured to me: now, it's really established turk is ACTUALLY A KURD--& his family only 'transplants' to Turkey-- first generation I should think--more reason Kurd will be mindful of the turkish gover't of this marriage contract--& Phil doesn't have an embassy even a consulate? to 'defend' Loofah's cause? ( if indeed Phil wants to 'whitewash' her crimes?) whilst Turkey has one in Phil??? hmm.. another angle.He's mentioned this..

It won't be a great surprise if Kurd wants to keep his nose clean with Turkey with their status.I don't believe turkey will take 'kindly' with t his turn of events.

AS for Loofah trying to sweettalk him now-- wonder what good that will do.Once the 'cat/s is/are out of the bag'??? that's it! It has/have a life of it's own-- she didn't see the repercussions coming when she started her melodrama. & this is a tame word.There's NO going back like 'nothing' happened-- & all is ladida like she's been seen doing with Phil press.She likes to believe anything that suits her as 'fact'-- but things aren't like that.

If I were Kurd-- I'd fine her totally objectionable .It's obvious he came 'clean' with her-- when he married her-- but she didn't--she was deceptive from the first-( first marriage,anyone?) I will find this totally unforgivable.

yeah, if not for this BIGAMY coming to light? yeah, I'd say she may have had a good chance getting a pretty good almony-- NOW???? FORGET IT! JUST OUT OF PRIDE-- KURD WILL WITHOLD THE $$$$'S--knowing fully well-- tht's what she's gaga about-- & KURDS( OR ANY ARB FOR THT MATTER) ARE VERY PROUD PEOPLE!

Anonymous said...

Also, as Loofah loves to play the martyr, the poor me victim-- gee! I didn't know-- he's the one who deceived me-- (didn't know his family is in drugs, he's a Kurd)

I will say this right now-- SHE CAN FORGET THIS ANGLE & THIS BULL...

AS IT'S OBVIOUS-- SHE KNEW ALL ALONG THE TRUTH ABOUT T HE FAMILY SHE MARRIED INTO--the telltale signs????!!!

WHEN THEY HARANGUED DOLLY ANN-- NOTICED LOOFAH CLD ONLY SAY-- HOW DARE SHE SAY THIS ABOUT HER IN LAWS??? BUT NEVER WAS SHE ABLE TO CATEGORICALLY DENY --THEY ARE NOT INTO THE DRUG TRADE????

SAME WITH mA WITCH-- SHE LAMBASTED DOLLY-- BUT NEVER ONCE COULD SHE SAY-- IT'S NOT TRUE! ABOUT LOOFAH'S FIRST MARRIAGE.

If I were Dolly Ann? I'd sue the shit out of them plus demand a public apology in no uncertain terms. they went below the belt & any civility.Totally unnecessary!

Anonymous said...

don't you guys find it funny that when the brunei issue came out, she was called in by the senate? but with this bigamy issue (which is as clear as a broad day light that it happened) the government seems be turning a blind eye? not even a charge for falsification of documents? or adultery? why?

Anonymous said...

hey guys,

the timing of ruffa's bigamy case is off as fas as senate and congress are concern. we just had our mid-term elections and that a new senate and a new house of representative will convene soon. maybe, we need more patience in this one... but i believe there are well meaning filipino lawmakers who are not taking this issue sitting down... to be honest the muslim community in the philippines is so hot angry with ruffa... they are just bidding time... waiting to see what the lawmakers will be up to

i know u are all impatient as far as filing bigamy case is concerned... so as some sectors in the phil. society. it's just so downplayed because it is never in media... but like mostly here many filipinos are in boiling temperature as far as this bigamy case of ruffing is concerned...

we do not want to see the muslims taking actions in their own hands... you know how ballistic they could get

so, for me, it is really a matter of waiting... but please do not think that Philippine Lawmakers are not doing anything about it....

Anonymous said...

good to know-- Phil lawmakers aren't taking this sitting down-- or 'lying down!

if they did? we'll surely be the huge laughingstock in the whole world if these 2 'c*unts' can blackmail it's goverment into submission!

yeah, I do realize as I've stated in other thread-- these things do TAKE TIME TO SORT OUT-- before proceeding with a case.

Meanwhile, if I were dolly-- I'd start court procedures against them. This is no longer t he case of turning the 'other cheek' & being a good christian & BEING FORGIVING-- HELL! THEY DON'T DESERVE IT. Besides, with their low life bully boy tactics? they also challenged the integrity of her job as a reporter, etc.. etc..I WILL DEFINITELY DEMAND A TOTAL APOLOGY EVEN IF IT KILLED THEM!

tHEY HAVE TO LEARN THEIR LESSONS!

Anonymous said...

THIS WAS all over the papers-- few years back-- forget when-- a father gave up his only daughter for having an affair with an outsider-- or something liuke this-- PUNISHMENT????

SHE WAS STONED TO DEATH!!!

THE CHILDREN OF ALLAH DON'T MESS AROUND.

besides, if Kurd was a real Turk-- he'd be more democractic-- but he is a KURD! one of the most fundamentalist amongst Arabs/ Muslims!

Anonymous said...

I laughed when I heard she was given 3? cops for protection.

what good will that do??? IF & when they want to get her? ha... nothing will stop these people! & Flip cops will b e like a bunch bumbling Inpector Clousseus.

Anonymous said...

i really do hope that philippine officials are not just sweeping the bigamy issue under a rug because it wouldn't be right. they have a duty to the filipinos to prosecute criminals; hence the laws. otherwise, they might as well tell the filipinos to take the law into their own hands.